I am thinking out loud.........

“Maybe the truth is, there's a little bit of loser in all of us. Being happy isn't having everything in your life be perfect. Maybe it's about stringing together all the little things.”  Ann Brashares

Thinking Out Loud!

I am trying to put the following sentence “There is a little bit of loser in all of us” into prospective to better understand and to grasp the concept presented.  

What if that’s true?  I am feeling somewhat indifferent about this notion. The truth is some of us really strive to exhale in all that we do, but somehow may still feel like a loser at times.  Why is that?  Is it because in many cases whatever we do include someone else who may not as determined, motivated, and/ or ready to take on the task?

Am I playing the blame game here? Loll…..

So, hypothetically speaking if indeed everything we do involves someone else’s contribution, would it be correct or fair to conclude then “Maybe the truth is there's a little bit of a loser in all of us”?

I am not asking for everything in my life to be perfect, I just want some things to be! It’s very frustrating when you know for sure you do everything by the book and nothing happens.  For instance, acquiring that higher education to better your finances; be respectful and honest in your relationship, treat the other person as you would like to be treated.  Don’t be selfish, care about and for others, help others in need, and share with the less fortunate…blah blah blah.......

And somehow, after doing all that you still get the opposite of all.  Do you understand how frustrating and daunting the feeling of betrayal by life and nature is?  With that said, is there really a little beat of loser in me? Or is it loser by default? Was I already set to fail before birth? Isn’t life really tormenting? What do you think?

Ms. G